Learn how to change in your OWN ways.
Being dependent on others, makes me sick and I know some do too. I’m not saying to stand on your own feet early as now, but I think you should have the plans too. Of course everyone grows with the help of someone, with the help of your parents, guardians. The fact that all of us here on earth had been dependent too in some ways, maybe it could when you we’re just a kid, or maybe if you have problems and you need someone to comfort you right away. Those are just some ways of being dependent.
Why follow the way of others? The way on how they play with their lives, everyone has this own passion of his/her. But for you to know it, you must first know how to be independent, to learn to make your decisions for yourself, don’t be afraid if in case you’d be mistakenly choose the wrong choice, it doesn’t make you dumb person, but rather than makes you a better person that learned from the mistakes he/she have done.
Learn how to be alone.
It’s one of the best ways to know if your independentness is enough for you stand on your own. You choose your ways on how you want to live your life, on how you want to play with it. It’s not that your friends have told you that, they’ll be there in case you have problems? They will be there to support and comfort you. Every friend would tell that of course. But no one here on Earth knows on what’s going to happen next in the future. Who knows, you friend might just left you, and you’ll be there alone, will be craving for help because you don’t know how to be alone.
For those person, who would actually call you a “loner” don’t be silly getting affected easily by those temptations terms. It’s just that, it’s not in their environment, they haven’t felt being alone, and I’m pretty sure they’re afraid to have that kind of feeling. They’re jealous because they see someone, whom already could stand on their own feet. And deep inside they don’t know how.
In case no one will be there for you, are you independent enough to stand on your own?